“The success of marriage comes not in finding the right person, but the ability to adjust to the real person they inevitably realize they married”
One of the biggest myths is that once a relationship has lost the spark, it will not come back. This is simply not true. If your relationship started with intense love and a deep connection, you will probably find your way back to having that special bond.
What would make the relationship with your partner more fulfilling? Are you feeling hopeless or alone in the marriage because arguments are becoming more frequent and similar. Do you long for more closeness and connection, but wonder if is even possible?
Couples counseling through Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) can help create the relationship you long for. It has a proven track record and can typically be done within 8-20 sessions.
Dr. Sue Johnson, the creator of EFT, says, “Recognizing that partners are attracted and dependent on each other for nurturing and protection.”
The EFT approach focuses on creating and strengthening emotional bonds between partners by being open attuned and responsive. The approach helps partners really hear each others feelings and needs through an emotional connection.